Tradition is a guide and not a jailer.

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At an appropriate moment in the familial conversation, Alfred makes an appearance, his presence alone prompting silence. "Mr. Grayson, Mr. Todd" he says formally, "dinner is served for you and your family."

The hors d'oeuvre are smoked salmon in endive leaves, with the option of blue cheese spread with walnuts for those who do not enjoy fish, followed by a shrimp and grapefruit cocktail.